Surprise him. Catch your man off guard by doing something new and unexpected. This could possibly be something he has been hinting around at, or something you know for sure he will like. Whatever your choice, be sure that he doesn’t know it is coming; that way, he has no time to prepare for it.
Take charge. In order for most men to become vocal and scream in bed, they need to feel dominated. This will tap into their primal instincts to “howl at the moon.” Dominating your man and taking charge of a sexual experience will make him feel comfortable enough to become exceedingly vocal without being too self-conscious.
Turn the tables. The ongoing stereotype is that women are the ones to scream in bed, and usually because there is a man urging her on. Without hurting your man’s pride, don’t be afraid to make him say your name in bed. Tell him that you cannot hear your name loud enough. He may appreciate your effort, if nothing else. This will also encourage him to become more vocal.
Talk the talk. Before you do something in bed to your man, describe your process to him in a seductive manner. Doing so will paint a visual that will begin to excite him before you even touch him. Tell him how much you like what he is doing when he is in control of a sexual experience, as this will also help to push him closer to the point of screaming.
Ways To Make Him Ache For You
You love your guy. He loves you. But do you wonder if he still wants you like he did when your romance was new? After you pull out a bunch of these tricks, he sure as hell will.
Sure, you want adoration, respect, and the occasional sparkly treat from your man, but more than anything, you want to feel like he’s still got the hots for you. Well, here’s good news: Contrary to the widely held belief that men lose interest over time, experts now know that guys are actually hardwired for long-term lusting.
“It’s absolutely true, but it’s not without conditions,” says Jeffrey Bernstein, PhD, author of Why Can’t You Read My Mind? “You have to make a strategic effort to trigger that craving in him once you’re in a relationship because the spark in your bond won’t last if you neglect it.” For that reason, Cosmo has discovered the seven key make-him-ache-for-you strategies that specifically jump-start your guy’s desire. Be warned: Once you use them, he’ll be sticking to you like white on rice.
1. Utter the One Word That Drives Him Nuts
As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don’t compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips. “Just hearing it is an aphrodisiac,” says body-language expert Eve Marx, author of Read My Hips. “It ratchets up his desire because the message you send is ‘It’s you I’m thinking about and no one else.’ And men need to hear that — it’s tied to their primal urge to beat out all the competition.”
However, just blurting out his moniker as often as possible isn’t going to do it for him. You need to make it count. For instance, when you’re feeling sexy in a public setting, like in a dark bar, drop it into conversation in surprising spots and pause for a beat or two: “And then…Jeremy…I slammed the door behind me.”
Or try another trick when he’s putting the moves on you: Just kind of coo his name to draw his focus entirely on to you. “When Jake and I are getting it on, sometimes it feels like he’s lost in his own head,” says Sandrine,* 26. “But when I moan his name, everything feels like it gets more intense between us, like it brings him into the moment.”
4 Must-Know Sex Moves That’ll Please Any Man — Guaranteed!
You — yes ,YOU! — are a SEX GODDESS!
Learning how to satisfy your man sexually is a lot easier than you think. You don’t need to be a porn star or a some sort of sex crazed nymphomaniac to make sure that you give him a good time. In this article I want to teach you sex to give your man the most pleasure he’s ever had in his life.
1. Find out his kinks, fantasies and fetishes.
Every guy has certain things that are massive turn ons for them. It could be when you wear an extra tight pair of jeans or a pair of sexy heels or that top that reveals your cleavage more than usual. But with that being said, it could perhaps be something a little more wild. He might love the idea of seeing you with another woman or even another man. Or maybe he really wants to try anal sex with you. Or maybe he has a thing for feet.
If you are serious about satisfying your man sexually in the bedroom, then the most powerful thing that you can do is find out what his kinks, fantasies and fetishes are and then do them with him. Doing them with your man is actually the easy part. Finding them out and getting your man to open up is the hard part. Often your man may be slightly embarrassed or reluctant to talk about them with you. To get him to relax and open up to you is not that easy unfortunately.
One way to approach it is to tell him some of yours first. Being the first to share is a great way to get him to reciprocate. Another way is to just say that you want to try lots of different things with him. As you explain to your man each thing that you want to try with him, try to judge his reaction. Obviously he is going to look more keen and excited about certain ideas than others.
2. Learn how to talk dirty.
Yes, we all know that men are turned on mostly by what they see. But what you may not know is that if you want to vastly increase his sexual satisfaction when you are in bed together, then you need to learn how to talk dirty to him. Talking dirty to your man takes a little practice and work. But once you master it, you’ll have another skill in your sex toolset that most other girls don’t possess. The first stage to talking dirty to your man doesn’t actually involve words. It simply involves you getting louder and louder during sex. You need to accentuate your moans and groans. This is quite easy.
All you are going to be moaning is, “Mmmmmm” or “Ooooooo” or “Ahhhhh.” Easy, right? The next stage to talking dirty is just using 1 or 2 words. Try slowly saying, “Yes” or “That’s it” or “Yes, Yes” or “Keep Going.” When you are saying these one or two word phrases, try drawing them out and moaning as you say them.
Many women don’t ever even get to the second stage. So if you do, you are already ahead of them! Getting dirtier is actually pretty easy if you’ve mastered the first 2 stages. You just need to start telling your man what you enjoy about him and what he is doing, “I love how big you feel” or “Keep hitting that spot” or “Keep going, harder” or “You feel so good inside me.” But dirty talk during sex is only a start! Don’t forget that you can talk dirty to him during the day as well as through text if you want to turn him on and keep him satisfied.
3. Learn some awesome sex positions.
One of the things that I strongly believe in is the use of variation if your want to keep your man sexually satisfied in the bedroom. Everybody (both guys and girls) have certain things that turn them on way more than anything else. But if you focus solely on the same few things and use them over and over, you will inevitably end up getting bored of them. I strongly advocate that all my students should constantly try new things in the bedroom with their man and intersperse these new things with what already works well. That way you will slowly but steadily build up a large database of killer sex moves that are highly pleasurable to your man.
4. Learn how to give awesome oral sex.
If you are serious about learning how to satisfy your man sexually, then learning how to give fantastic, pleasurable blow jobs should be near the top of your list of priorities.
3 Sizzling Hot Sex Games You’ve NEVER Tried Before
Don’t let your sex life get boring.
Ever been in a relationship with a wonderful guy that slowly started to get really boring, especially in the bedroom? If you’re like most people, then this has happened to you at least once. A fabulous way to stop things from getting boring is to try playing some hot adult sex games with him. Here are 3 of the hottest.
1. Strawberries & Champagne… With A Twist
There is something very hot about feeding your man and having him feed you, especially when it’s a food that’s associated with sex. The great thing about strawberries and champagne is that they are quite clean and not really that messy when compared to things like oysters which can stink and chocolate which can melt and ruin your sheets.
Just feeding each other using your hands is not going to make for a particularly hot sex game. A way to make this sex game much hotter is to have your man eat the strawberries off your body. You can even try pouring a small amount of champagne on your body and getting him to lick it off. Some great places to put the strawberries on your body are between your legs, on your breasts and even on your butt!
You can even try pouring a small amount of champagne into your mouth and start kissing your man. Even better… take a small amount of champagne into your mouth and then go down on your man and give him some oral sex.
2. The ‘Don’t Orgasm’ Game
I know that you may have been expecting some hot tips on how to give great oral sex, but this next one is probably the hottest adult sex game I have created. The purpose of the game is to make your man reach an orgasm faster than you can. The winner is the person who orgasms last.
The loser then has to do a forfeit like cooking the winner a meal or paying for a nice date. Usually, the easiest way to play the game is in the 69 position where each of you has the other’s genitals in your face.
This is especially fun if both you and your man are close and enjoy joking with each other. This is because when your man is about to reach orgasm, he will be desperately trying not to cum. He will usually try to pull away from you, which means that you need to pull him in even closer to make sure he does! Meanwhile, he will be doing the exact same thing to you.
This physical playfulness make this sex game incredibly hot as it builds a lot of tension. You can actually play the “Don’t Orgasm” game in practically any position when you’re having sex, but the best position for playing it by far is when you’re 69ing as both of you are in a fair position to deliver and receive pretty much the same amount of pleasure.
3. The Sex position Checklist
Most couples make the mistake of falling into what I call a “sex routine” where they end up using the same positions (hello, missionary!) in the same places (the bedroom) over and over. It usually starts because the couple enjoys those positions the most. The sad thing is that using the same sex positions over and over means that you are going to quickly make them seem boring.
To break out of this routine, I always suggest creating a sex position checklist for a week or a month or however long you want. You are both going to be working as a team to try and complete this checklist before the end date you have set.
So what kinds of positions can you include on the checklist? Here are a few examples to get you started:
In the kitchen, from behind
Spooning on the sofa
A whole night of doggy style in the bedroom
The Piledriver position, then the Deckchair position, then afterward, the Octopus position
What you choose is obviously up to you and your man. Just remember to tick each one off the list when you’re done .