Is your man the “before midnight” kind of guy, while you’re a morning person? Here’s how to get him in the mood in the morning (even if he’s still asleep)!
Morning sex is the best kind of sex there is. I, personally, can’t wait to find a guy who stays and makes love to me again in the morning (as opposed to grabbing his clothes and heading out before the sun is fully up).
It’s usually easy to turn your guy on during the day. However, men can be weird about morning sex. Sometimes it’s intimacy issues they’re having (they think you’ll get more attached if they have sex with you again in the morning), sometimes it’s because they don’t want to wear themselves out before work, and sometimes it’s just because they hate the idea of morning breath. I’ve got you covered, ladies. Here’s how to get him in the mood for morning sex and to start your day off right:
1 Cuddle Him and Caress His Chest
I’ve noticed if a man lies flat on his back and you wrap your body over his and gently stroke his chest, he tends to wake up better. Actually, he wakes up a lot better. Wrap your warm legs over his body and then run the back of your fingers gently across his chest. He’ll wake up soon enough.
2 Gently Stroke His Cock
Of course, if you want to make sure he wakes up, you can always go for the gold and gently stroke his cock (he’ll love these techniques) If he doesn’t already have a morning erection, he will now! Start by caressing his man-meat with the tips of your fingers and then take hold of it tenderly and stroke up and down. It’ll be up and ready in no time.
3 Have Breath Freshener’s By the Bed
One of the biggest reasons men don’t want to have sex first thing in the morning is because they hate the idea of morning breath.
It’s not just your morning breath; it’s actually their morning breath that bothers them. Avoid this by having a bottle of water next to the bed and some of those breath strips on the nightstand. Make sure you take one before you try to wake him up.
4 Wiggle Your Behind
Roll over to where he’s holding you and press your behind up against his man meat. Then, slowly, and “innocently,” wiggle against him. Trust me: He’s not going to resist that wiggle. All of his senses will be screaming for him to make love to you. Especially now that men are more attracted to bigger, firmer, rounder booties than ever.
5 Kiss His Neck
There are plenty of erogenous zones you can touch or kiss on a man to make him hard and ready, but first thing in the morning you can start with the neck. I don’t recommend starting with his lips (morning breath and all), but if you tenderly kiss his neck, he’ll wake up in a sexy kind of mood.
6 Give Him a Blow Job
One of the best ways to wake your guy up (and make sure he’s ready for morning sex) is to wrap your mouth around his man-meat. Even if he’s not hard and ready for you, he’ll be aroused quickly enough. Be ready, though, this will turn him into an animal (not a soft love-making kind of morning).
7 Put His Hand on Your Breast
Why should you have to do all the work to get him in the mood? There’s nothing saying you have to put in all the effort; instead, make him do some of the work.
You can stimulate his desire by making sure he’s touching your most pleasurable parts. For example, place his hand on your breast so he’s already touching you intimately when he wakes up.
If you’re feeling a little bolder, put his hand between your legs and wiggle a little, it’ll get him to start moving his fingers to pleasure you.
8 Moan Softly in His Ear
While most men are definitely visually oriented (that’s why porn and lingerie industries will never go out of business), there is still something to be said for the audial side of sex. When you call out his name in the throes of passion, or scream in pleasure while he’s giving you the biggest “O” of your life, it really increases his libido and builds up his desire.
So why wait until you’ve already had your pleasure? Go ahead and moan softly in his ear now or moan as you nestle your soft behind against his pelvis. Even better, tell him something dirty. That’ll turn him on instantly.
9 Caress His Pelvic Bone
Speaking of the pelvis, one of the best places to stimulate your guy is his pelvic bone. The area around his penis is extremely sensitive to touch and if you caress that area, kiss it, or even lightly lick it, to drive him insane! The trick is to begin this particular touch when he’s already beginning to wake up because the softness can make him fall into an even deeper slumber.
10 Climb on Top of Him and Wake Him Up!
Finally, if you want to guarantee that you’re going to get some amazing sex first thing in the morning, don’t wait in hopes that the above tricks will work, surprise him by already being on top and having sex with him first!
Chances are your man has a hard on anyway (early morning “wood”), so go ahead and take advantage of it. Think about it: What man is going to complain about a hot woman bouncing happily up and down on him when he first wakes up? No man will complain. None.
The trick to morning sex is to not give him a chance to think about all the reasons why he shouldn’t have morning sex. Entice him while he’s still in that half-asleep and half-awake state of mind and he won’t be able to resist it!
How do you convince him to have sex in the morning?