Check out Cosmo’s top oral sex tips so you can have an Oh-mazing time
Ever wanted to give your man the ultimate blow job?
Want to receive the same attention in return?
Then try out these hot oral sex tips designed for you both and guaranteed to give you an Oh-mazing time
FOR HER: ‘INVISIBLE ORAL’ CAN BOOST YOUR PLEASURE
A shocking number of us have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. If that sounds like you, keep the lights off. With fewer distractions, you’ll be able to focus.
FOR HIM: THERE’S A DIGITAL VERSION OF ORAL…
… and no, we don’t mean porn! A unique way to give his frenulum – aka “the F-spot”, or the small strip of skin on the underside of his shaft – is to pay it some special attention. Place the tip of your finger on it, then take his shaft (along with your finger) into your mouth. As you move your mouth up and down, rub your finger over the F-spot. Penis genius
FOR HER: SUCTION ISN’T JUST FOR LOVE BITES
Many women complain that they have a hard time getting off when he’s down south because he uses too little pressure. Ask him to try sucking on your clitoris instead – it’s more intense.
FOR HIM: THERE’S A WAY HE’S NEVER BEEN LICKED
The hole in the tip of his penis is super-sensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It’s such a specific place, he probably doesn’t even realise it has feel-good potential, so he’ll love that you’ve discovered it.
FOR HER: MULTITASKING LEADS TO MORE OS FOR YOU
Being stimulated in multiple areas will help a woman climax more quickly. So, while his tongue is at work, have him play with your nipples. To start, he should softly stroke you. As you get closer, he can squeeze.
FOR HIM: VICE CAN BE NICE… SO GET A GRIP
The ridge of his penis – where the tip meets the shaft – is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips and place them around that ridge like a vice. Apply firm pressure – equivalent to what you’d use to squeeze fruit – then release and repeat. The movement perks up the nerves, then lets them relax, which can feel really good.
FOR HER: COOLING DOWN CAN BE VERY HOT
Your temperature rises slightly when you’re aroused, so anything cool will be a pleasurable jolt to your senses. Point a fan in your direction so, while he’s between your legs, you’re feeling the warmth of his mouth and a cool breeze.
FOR HIM: IF YOU’RE WORRIED HE’S GOING TOO DEEP
Here’s a trick that gives him the illusion you’re taking him all the way in: place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.FOR
HER: GET ON TOP OF THE SITUATION
You don’t have to be on your back to receive oral. Have him lie down, then put your lady bits over his mouth. This gives you some control over the pace and motion, making it easier to orgasm – and it can be erotic for a man to have your bits up close and personal.
AND FOR YOU BOTH
Lie side by side in a 69 position, with your head near his penis. As you both lick, let your hands massage each other’s bums – there are large muscles there, so rubbing them will create an even greater release.