Why is female squirting so hot anyway? Most guys wouldn’t want a woman peeing on them. (Eh,actually, never mind that thought.)
Nevertheless, female squirting is hot because it’s not really pee, it’s a special ejaculate that comes from a woman’s genitals when she is extremely aroused. While she may feel embarrassed that she’s this excited, a major ego boost for you!
She often screams like a banshee, which is like music to a guy’s ears. That’s why we’ve put together a beginners guide on how to make a woman squirt.
A Medical Controversy
Now before we move on, we should admit that not everyone is convinced that female ejaculation can happen or agrees on where the fluid actually comes from inside the body.
First of all, don’t subject your woman to any hard pressure to squirt. Whether it happens or not comes down to you using the right technique, how relaxed and aroused she feels and how willing she is to completely “let go.”
This means you barking orders and demanding that she squirt is not going to help. Be patient and concentrate on stimulating her mind, along with her lady parts. Create a naughty fantasy while you’re stimulating the “secret spot” and try to push her over the edge with erotic thoughts.
Here’s How To Do It
This is the best way to induce a squirting orgasm …
Start by helping her to relax. It’s important that she’s comfortable and trusting of you. Giving her one or more “traditional” orgasms first is the best way to help her get here.
Next, you want to insert your index and middle finger into her vagina.
Reach upward, toward her pubic hair area and find the G-spot. This is about 2 or 3 inches inside the vagina, and feels like a bumpy, ridged area only one inch in size. You will notice that it feels “rougher” than the surrounding wall. It kind of feels like the inside roof of your mouth.
When a woman is sufficiently aroused, you can more easily find her G-spot. Put your other hand on her pubic bone while you perform this next move. Once you find the G-spot thrust up and down several times, as if pounding her with a penis. (Don’t just tickle her.)
This may take some practice, so make sure she’s willing — above all, make sure your arm and hand are up for the task. The secret to how to make a woman squirt is to stimulate the G-spot and focus on the intensity.
Yes, the frame of mind of your lady does matter.
The common belief is that the G-spot is a tail end of the clitoris. While you do want to give her clitoral orgasms, don’t underestimate the subtleties of the vaginal orgasm, made possible through the G-spot.
There are many ways to provide her with an orgasm BEFORE you move onto the squirting orgasm — making it MUCH easier!